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How to Catch a Cheating Partner


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Infidelity Private Investigations

Private investigators have forever been known for helping clients by proving infidelity within their relationships. Infidelity Investigations can be a very seedy business as we have seen on plenty of our jobs, but without us there is no way clients would ever know what their partner has been getting up to. Infidelity investigations always have an emotional element attached to them which often becomes very distressing when we hand over the evidence.


What to Look Out For

There are plenty of signs to look out for if you suspect your partner is cheating on you or having an affair. We have put a short list together below, but the clearest sign of all comes from gut instinct. If you have strong suspicions that something isn't right, then you are probably right. The problem is proving it. You can ask the question or even do some of your own investigating yourself, but when someone is hiding an affair they are not going to openly admit it and they are going to be very careful in covering their tracks.


  1. Phone behaviour - Today, everyones secrets are in their phones. Whether its call logs, text messages, Whatsapp messages, emails, location data, hidden folders, images, videos, social media, the list goes on. However, all of this can be deleted and a cover story can often repute an allegation. Just keep an eye on your partners behaviour with the phone. Are calls being taken in another room or outside? Is the screen being shielded when messages are going back and forth? Is the phone often placed screen down or often switched off?

  2. Absence - Absence is a tricky one as there will always be a cover story. However, cover stories need to be backed up with an alibi. If you suspect your partner is out and getting up to no good, send some messages or make some phone calls to check the alibi.

  3. Money - It can cost a lot of money to have an affair. Keep an eye on the finances and account for every penny going out. If you are seeing payments for things like meals, drinks, hotels or activities that you were not involved with, something isn't right. However, a clever cheat will use an account you don't have access to making things very difficult to monitor.

  4. Appearance - Who is he (or she) dressing up for? Why the sudden change of appearance? Who is he (or she) trying to impress? It could be nothing, just making some changes, or even trying to impress you! But its worth taking note of it.


What To Do About It

How to prove a partner is cheating on you

Now you are seeing all the signs of a cheating partner and you've got the gut wrenching feeling. So what now? You have been married for 10 years, you have a mortgage and other bills to pay for each month and two children to support. If you prove your partner is cheating on you its likely going to end the relationship which is going to turn everyones life upside down, hence the emotional aspect we mentioned earlier. So, you can either let it continue (which really is not a good idea) or get the evidence need to prove your allegations. You can by all means do this investigation your self, but we don't recommend it. Infidelity investigations require covert surveillance to prove your partner is a cheat. This makes things somewhat difficult when your partner knows what you look like and what you drive etc. Whilst your partner is out cheating, your face will be the one face he or she is looking out for. Imagine a spinning airport radar, thats what your partners head will be doing. We recommend hiring a private investigator to do the work for you. We would conduct a professional surveillance operation to evidence where your partner is going, who he or she is meeting, and what he or she is getting up to. We then hand over the evidence which allows you to make a rational decision on how to confront the situation. Having time, space and knowledge is the best position to be in when given evidence of a cheating partner. It allows you to gather your thoughts and make a plan. Whether that plan is to head straight to the restaurant and dump his bolognaise on his head in front of his bit on the side, dump his clothes out the window and change the locks or play it cool and tell his mum and dad first... We have seen many approaches from clients but the point is you have considered the best approach for your situation.


Sentry Private Investigators Ltd
Get It Done Professionally

Over the years Sentry Private Investigators have seen it all. Cheating partners go to great lengths to hide acts of infidelity and even greater lengths when visiting brothels... There is a reason why private investigators are hired to evidence this these acts, because we know what we are doing and its a better option than doing it yourself. If you suspect your partner is being unfaithful then get it done professionally. We often prove something clients have known to have been going on for years. We just get the evidence for clients to finally put an end to things.


If you suspect infidelity within your relationship and you need the professional services of a private investigator in Birmingham or the U.K, contact Sentry Private Investigators Ltd.


Call: 01217691626



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